I have recently been turned on to a show that comes on live on Wednesdays online. the name of the show is Kandi Koated Nights. They talk about everything, There is no topic that is off limits. They also have celebrity guest that appear on the show. check out the show ——> kandikoatednight.com There is more to Kandi then just this show. Kandi used to be in the singing group Escape, She still does music and puts out cds, She is on Real Housewives of Atlanta, She has a a store in Smyrna, GA (TAGS Boutique) and a whole bunch of other stuff. Check it out on the website above.

Some of the latest guests were Evelyn Lozada, Momma Dee, Lil Scrappy, Memphitz, and The Hudson brothers.

I believe a man is suppose to treat his woman like a Queen and a woman is suppose to treat her man like a King. I think the relationship has to 50/50 not 60/40 or 30/70. I also believe that if a man truly loves and respect his woman, he will not cheat and vice versa when it comes to women. I also think love and respect goes hand and hand and plays a big part on if a woman and man cheat on one another. I like to believe that people can have lasting relationships and a happy married life. I’m not saying a relationship has to be perfect because ain’t nothing perfect but at the rate the world is going today, Relationships could be a lot better. 

Its like people have no morals today and its all about “Tell him/her what he/she wants to hear to get what you want” or “I’ma play him/her before he/she play me” or “We don’t love these hoes” or “Its all about pussy and money” or “Money over Bitches” or “Money over Niggas” or “I wanna have my cake and eat it too” or “I’ma playa” or “I just want they money”…  

All these sayings is why there are so many broken homes, so many kids growing up without their mom or dad, kids having kids, so many divorces and break ups!! 

Its sad because people think that its cool to be this way. In in all honesty, its glorified all over tv, homes, school, just everywhere.

I’m not tryna preach I just want to understand why aren’t that many real relationships out there anymore, Why is it so hard to make stuff last, Why is it so easy to take things for granted, Why do do people realized what they had once it gone.

I still like to believe in that Happily Ever After Fairy-tale but at the same time I know the truth… and its sad.

The best part of the Pt. 2 of the BBW reunion was when Evelyn and Jennifer made up. You could see all over their faces that they really wanted to make up. It took a lie detector test to get them to make up. I agree with Tami that keisha needs to learn how to stand up for herself. I think Keisha took things out of proportion from the first meeting. i was happy to hear that Suzie was not the one running her mouth. I feel like they didn’t not cover all that they should have cover on pt.2 of the reunion. Both Parts of the Reunion was primarily focused on Evelyn and Jen and parts of Tami and Shaunie. They should have talked more about Tami and Royce and where they stand as friends now. They should have discussed the fish in Kenya’s room. They should discussed more things. I wish we would have heard more from Royce, Kenya, Suzie and Keisha. Over all it was a great second half of the reunion. 

I like how the ladies owned up to their behavior and apologized to everyone while promising to do better. I am even more happy that there will be a Season 5!!! I thought all the ladies looked nice. My favorite outfit was definitely Evelyn’s though. I like the fact that John sally asked Jen why she didn’t take the same legal actions that she took against Nia with Eric. That was a good question. I like the point that Tami made about bullying someone and then tripping about it when you are getting bullied. Jen definitely has double standards but I still like her and her outfit was on point. I am interested to see what the lie detective test will reveal. I know its going to be something good that comes from it. I miss eve and Jen being friends. Shaunie admitted that this season was a mess and that it bothered her that Jen and Evelyn’s friendship was over, and her almost crying. I think that was real. Many people think that the ladies are putting on a show so that there will be another season of BBW, I think the ladies were  being genuine. The first part seemed to be mostly about Jen/Eve/Tami/Shaunie and a little bit of Kenya and Keisha.

funny 

This song makes me think… Sometimes I be like forget everything I’m just going to take risk in life and do whatever I want.

kinda like winging things lol

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beyoncediario:

Beyoncé: Behind the Scenes of Pulse

I freakin love you

Lets Talk about SEX!!! According to my psychology teacher SEX and food are what gives people the most pleasure.  

Yes!! SEX is pleasurably. Right?

Right.

These people are having SEX with anybody. Guys are having SEX with as many girls as they can because they think its cool. Girls are having SEX with any and every guy just to fit in. 

5% of girls and 30% of boys have sex by age 15, 21% of 9^th graders have slept with four or more partners, 50% of 17 year olds have had sex, 80% of teens have sex by age 19, 55% of teens ages 13-19 have engaged in oral sex. 

Nearly 3 in 10 (27%) 13-16 year olds are sexually active

It seems as kids are having SEX more and more at a young age. I hear all the time about kids in middle school having SEX and committing SEXual acts. These kids are so young, yet have more experience than most adults… smh

Why is the idea of SEX  so popular but without the idea of STD’s and other DISEASES that can people can get from having SEX? Don’t people know having SEX with multiple partners can lead to DISEASES… Apparent Not. I often wonder how generations to come are going be like in terms of having SEX. 

SEX is not the most important thing in relationships, How can you build a relationship with someone based on SEX? 

To you young ladies out their who just gives it up so freely and with out getting any real commitment #EPICFAIL

To you young men who think sleeping with a lot of girls is cool… ITS NOT

LETS SWITCH UP!!!

I’m not saying SEX is bad and people shouldn’t do it but MAKING LOVE is suppose to between two people that genuinely love each other. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free… ijs MOOOOOOOO

I just love their relationship. I can’t wait until they are married. I want them to prove all their haters that want them to fail wrong.

These days people don’t know what it means to have a real friendship. These days you see kids be friends for a few days, maybe a few weeks and before you know it they aren’t friends anymore. They let the smallest things mess up their friendships. The main thing that messes up friendships is that the people aren’t real these day. I thank god that I have been able to find real friends through out my life and to this day we are still cool, close, and we can talk about anything. So S/O to all my real friends out their.

When you become someone friend you are suppose to be their friend, a friend is family you pick for yourself… I really like that quote. I can honestly say I have kelp it 100 with all my real friends and that i always try my best to be there for them the way a real friend should be. They can talk to me about anything and know that I want judge them and I will give the best advice that I can. I take my friendships very serious. Loyalty is a must also… ijs

My first real friend was Genevah a.k.a Ne-Ne. I met her when I was in the 5th grade and we became really cool in the 6th grade. We have remained real/true/loyal friends since then. I moved away for several years and we remained in touch. We have never turned on one another or anything like that and we barely argued are anything like that. We both are supportive of each other goals and dreams, one another aspirations for the future. We are friends the way friends are suppose to be. I Love that girl <3

When you have a real Friendship treasure it… Never take your friends for granted <3 <3 <3 <3